i missed u every second . this is the picture on our wedding during the tea ceremony with ur mum. I can see how happy u were when we got married. still remember last year October how u proposed to me. U didn't prepare a ring nor kneel down to proposed to me like wat usually the movies did. U just ask me a simple question "can we go to HDB to apply a flat together?" I know u r a straight forward person and a simple guy. Though without a ring, i still accept ur proposal cos' i can see how sincere u r and can feel how much u love me.. During the preparation of our wedding, we have been through a lot of obstacles. But eventually we managed to work it out and our wedding ceremony was done very smoothly.. U were so happy when everything is finally over and we are husband and wife on May 2nd 2010. U told me that this is the happiest moment of ur life and u will cherish me and love me forever. After the wedding, we are so looking forward to the arrival of our baby Bella. everyday u will be worried for me as u r so afraid that i overworked and skipped my meals. U always text me and call me to make sure i'm fiine. Baby bella is a very active baby, she often kick me hard in the stomach. U will always tell Bella not to kick me so hard and be a good girl.. U knew tat i had pregnancy blues, therefore u will try many ways to make me laugh and make me feel better. I really missed the time when u make funny faces and do the funny actions. I will always remember that. Thank u lao gong. U r the best hubby in the world.
Even though u have a very bad temper, but u never shout at me before.. Your mum told me that in the past, u often had quarrels with ur ex gfs and shouted at them so loudly. She was too, surprised that u didn't shout at me once. Your mum said tat u've told her that i'm a very understanding and reasonable person, though very stubborn. U also told ur mum that i always listens to u and respects u a lot. U will never find another person like me in the world again. Therefore u've told ur mum i am the right girl for u whom u want to spend the rest of your life with.
I know sometimes i'm very unreasonable and make u angry.. U always said i have da xiao jie temper and wanted me to change. But whenever i was unreasonable with u, u r not angry. U always talked to me nicely and make me calm down. Ur actions were really sweet and that really makes me want to change for the better. And i did promised u that i will change.. i'm trying my very best to do it.
Taking care of Bella really isn't easy without u. Still remember 2 weeks ago when we take turns to take care of her. Sometimes when bella cough or sneeze, i was so worried for her. Really wished that u r beside me, i won't be afraid if u r around. Parenthood is really wonderful.. giving birth is really wonderful too.. How amazing life is .. I'm so sad that we can't take care of her together, watching her grow up and calling u daddy.. wat to do .. it's all fated.
U r a dog lover.. and u wished that we can get a dog together. Last year when u brought me to Pasir Ris pet farm, we nearly bought a dog. But i said we should delay buying a dog as we are going to set up a family together. So u told me tat when our baby girl is 3 years old and when we collected our flat, we will buy a dog. I agreed ..
Lao gong, u always take good care of me and protect me .. whenever i had problems u will help me to solve it, whenever i had complaints u will listen to me and give me advise, whenever i'm bored u will keep me company, whenever i am sad u will make me happy, whenever i'm tired u will put me to sleep.. when people take advantage of me, u will tell me wat to do, when cockroaches come near me u will help me to chase them away, when i am sick u will take care of me and make sure i am well again, when i am hungry u will cook or buy food for me.. u've done a lot for me, but i dun have the chance to do the same things to u again ..
i always yearn for a happy family.. as i grow up from a not-so-close family, i've always wanted us to have a happy family. Whenever we walked on the streets and i see happy family together, my heart always melt. U promised me u will do the same thing too, provide me with a happy family.. we will grow old together, our childish growing up, get married and we becoming grandparents.. but my wish will never come truer ,..
I have to admit that i'm quite a lazy person.. u always ask me how come all the girls will go for facial, medicure, pedicure and i don't do all these .. i always tell u tat i dun need all tat .. but u say tat girls should often go for facial and do some self-maintenance.. i know u wanted to have a pretty wife as u have high expectations on me , a person with good complexion and sexy body .. I did make efforts to do tat, but i did it in a more thrifty way. I do mask at home, bought some cream to put on my face, i dun eat oily food so tat i won't grow fat.. U said u will buy SKII for me after my confinement so that i can have a nicer complexion.. After my confinement, u promised to go for jogs with me everyday so that i can regain my figure, i guess now i only can go for jogs alone.. But i will try my best to stay pretty and maintain my body shape, just for u ..
I always have bad habits when i converse, i used very broken chinese and english when i talked to u and u always scold me. After a few months i've actually influenced u and u talked in broken languages too.. But u said tat we shouldn't talk to Bella this way as she will talk like us next time too.. I promised u i won't, i will teach her the correct way..
A lot of my friends and colleagues told me that i've changed a lot since i've met u. I used to be very naughty, i love to drink and club and get to know many people .. Since i've met u, i've become a different person, in fact, i've changed to a better person. Thank you for that.. Through ur firiends, i know that u used to be very playful too, but after u met me, u changed, changed to a better person just like me .. guess we are just perfect for each other.. a match made from heaven..
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