5th day since dad admitted himself in hospital. After various tests, doctor confirm he is stage 3 liver cancer. No chance of cure. Survival period is an estimated one year. I have prepared myself for this news. Therefore I managed to keep my calm and did not over react when I meet doctor this afternoon. Doctor say the best way to PROLONG his life is to do chemotherapy.
好不容易卖了自己的屋子。。有一点点钱开始享福。。不幸的事,却发生了。dad looks sad when me and brother visited him. But trying his very best to behave normally. 爸爸做了以辈子的功。。can say hes a workaholic and a very responsible worker. Hes 62. To many, he is too young to die. I kept my cool.. trying to talk and talk to make him happy and divert his attention.
我问他有什么心愿为了。。我跟弟弟会尽量帮他实现。his wish is to see my brother getting married. Which he only plan in next 3 yrs. Not to be a pessimistic person but I doubt he can get to witness. .他会死不瞑目吗?
Brother and I should be planning to bring him travelling before his last days. Well, he has work through entire life and never enjoy before. (Besides his constant drinking habit which is so called his enjoyment) . I had suggested to visit europe and to visit Liverpool and its stadium as dad is a big time Liverpool fan. Ive been there last yr. So I can be a free tour guide to him.
可是。。为什么我们要等到and知道他的寿命不多才give him attention and bring him to see the world. 太可悲了。everyday. . We r busy with our own stuff and neglected our parents. Isnt it a bit too late? On the contrary. . At least we showed more care and concern and didn't abandon him.
Ive requested dad to stay with me when he discharged. Since a workaholic, 他放不下工作。I will need to force him to work lesser and come home daily. After visiting him, brother and I went to Courts to get him a nice and comfy bed for him to 修养。we will get him tv in the room too.
好不容易慢慢的学习坚强,学习自己站起来。忽然间听了爸爸的消息,差点又崩溃了。为什么不幸和伤心的是每次都发生在我身上。难道。。。要开心真的那么难吗??
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